
And Our Eight Year Anniversary

If You Are Ever on Long Island Oheka Castle Is a Place You Must Visit
From the moment you first see it rising above the surrounding landscape you sense that this is no ordinary location. Whether you are looking for unique dinner ideas or a romantic date night, Oheka provides an experience that feels special. It is also a memorable way to explore Long Island.
The castle offers historic tours, beautiful gardens, and incredible architecture. The restaurant within the castle makes it perfect for anniversaries and romantic evenings.
It also works for an afternoon spent wandering through history in a way that feels intimate and personal.

Faith and I chose Oheka Castle to celebrate our eight-year anniversary. From the moment we arrived, it quickly became one of our favorite Long Island date night ideas we have ever done. Oheka is more than a restaurant. It is more than a venue for events. It is a full timeline of storytelling, history, and design that you feel as soon as you step inside.
The sense of history is palpable in the grand hallways and high ceilings. The sunlit solariums showcase light falling across carefully restored furniture that feels both classic and alive. The castle has been meticulously restored after decades of decline. The layers of history are visible in every detail. Every corner tells a story, and every room reflects the care and attention given to preserving its past.
The Vision of Otto Kahn

Oheka Castle was built in the 1910s by Otto Kahn a financier and patron of the arts who envisioned a residence that combined grandeur with durability. Kahn had experienced a house fire in his earlier life and was determined that his new home would be fireproof.
This decision influenced the design of every room every staircase and even the construction materials. Walking through the castle it is easy to see that Kahn imagined not only a home but a fortress of creativity and luxury. He designed spaces that could host lavish parties and private retreats at the same time.

The castle has multiple pools, wide gardens, and old secret passageways. Staff once used these routes to move through the building without being seen. Some of the tunnels sit right beside the guest hallways, which makes the whole place feel bigger and more puzzling than you expect.
In the 1990s the castle was closed at times. It is wild to picture anyone wandering around without getting lost. Faith’s mother used to sneak in with her friends during those years. We asked her how she even pulled that off.

For one, the castle is massive. It has multiple pools, countless rooms, and hallways that seem to go on forever. On top of that, there are so many parallel hallways for staff and guests that you could easily disappear if you knew the layout.
Her story about sneaking around adds another layer of personal history to the place. It shows that the castle has always had a magnetic pull for people who love adventure and beauty.
Walking Through the Castle
We arrived a little before six in the evening checked in at the front desk and began our tour right on time. The tour lasted about an hour and fifteen minutes and honestly it went by far too quickly. From the first hallway the guide began to explain the story of Oheka from Otto Kahn to the decline and eventual restoration.
I had always thought of Oheka as just a fancy restaurant. I never realized how much history was hidden behind every room, staircase, and hallway. Learning the stories behind each space completely changed my perspective. Faith kept laughing at me because every time we stepped into a new room, I whispered, “I never knew this was here.”

The level of detail in the architecture is astonishing from the carved woodwork to the sunlit windows to the secret staircases hidden behind walls.
Both Faith and I had visited Oheka before but in very different contexts. Faith had attended her prom there while I had been there for my fathers fiftieth birthday party. Walking through the castle together brought back memories of those visits but also highlighted how little we had understood the full history or purpose of each room at the time.

Back then, the castle had simply been a beautiful backdrop for photos and events. Now, with the historical context, it felt like we were discovering it for the first time. Walking through libraries, grand ballrooms, private suites, and hidden hallways made us feel as if each space could be part of a movie set.
The guide even pointed out films and television shows that had been shot at Oheka, including one of the Adam Sandler movies. It was surreal to realize that we had seen some of these rooms on screen without ever knowing it.

The Gardens and Grounds
One of the first things that strikes you about Oheka Castle is the scale of the grounds. The estate sits on nearly one hundred acres of meticulously maintained gardens, lawns, and wooded areas. Walking along the paths you can see the careful thought that went into every design choice.
The gardens feature classical European layouts with perfectly trimmed hedges, fountains, and wide, open lawns. They invite visitors to slow down, linger, and explore at their own pace. It is easy to imagine guests in the 1920s walking these same paths in formal attire. You can picture them enjoying the view from the terrace while orchestras played inside the castle.

The estate is dotted with fountains, reflecting pools, and statues that feel both grand and intimate at the same time. Every corner offers a new perspective of the castle itself. From certain angles, the estate looks like it could have been lifted straight from a European palace. Yet it still feels distinctly American in its scale and ambition.
Walking through the gardens gives you a sense of what Otto Kahn envisioned. He wanted more than a private home. He wanted to create a statement about what an American estate could be.

Exploring the Suites
Another highlight of the tour was seeing some of the private suites. This part of the castle surprised us the most. The rooms are spacious with tall ceilings, large windows, fireplaces, and furniture that blends classic design with comfort. The suites feel like a quiet retreat from the world outside. It is a place where you could spend days without noticing the passage of time.
Faith and I both had the same thought at once. We should come back and spend a night there. Not for a wedding or party, but simply to wake up inside the castle and explore it.







Walking through the suites also offered insight into Otto Kahn’s attention to detail. Each room was designed for both beauty and function. The furniture and layout reflect a thoughtful understanding of how a grand estate operates.
In addition to aesthetics, Kahn ensured the house was practical and safe. His experience with losing a previous home to fire led him to invest in fireproofing the structure using the latest technology available at the time. The result is a home that has survived nearly a century and can continue to be enjoyed by future generations.

The Secret Passageways
One of the most fascinating aspects of Oheka Castle is the network of passageways that run parallel to the main guest areas. These hallways allowed staff to move unseen while providing guests with a seamless and elegant experience.

During the tour we were amazed at the complexity of these hidden corridors. The castle is enormous and without such systems it would be difficult to manage events, meals, and daily operations.
This aspect of the castle also ties back to some of the stories we heard from Faith’s mother about her experiences in the 1990s. During periods when Oheka was closed or under renovation she and her friends would sneak into the castle.

We asked her how she managed to navigate such a vast and intricate building. She laughed as she recalled exploring rooms and passageways not open to the public.
It is easy to see how someone could feel like they were discovering a secret world. Parallel hallways, hidden staircases, and endless rooms make the castle seem larger and more mysterious than it already is.
History and Restoration
The history of Oheka Castle is a story of grandeur decline and reinvention. Otto Kahn built the castle during a period of immense wealth, creating one of the largest private residences in the United States.
After Kahn’s death the estate went through periods of decline and disuse. By the late twentieth century parts of the castle were neglected and closed to the public.

The restoration efforts have been meticulous. Every detail has been preserved or recreated, from the intricate woodwork to the historic paintings and furniture. The castle now serves multiple purposes including tours, events, and dining experiences.
Walking through the restored spaces, it is easy to forget that the building ever fell into disrepair. The restoration team has managed to preserve the sense of history while making the castle functional for modern use. This balance makes Oheka feel alive and accessible rather than a static museum.
Films and Media
Another surprising discovery during our tour was learning about the number of films and television shows shot at Oheka Castle. Some of the rooms we walked through had been backdrops for movies including an Adam Sandler film. Seeing paintings and sets that had been part of the production made the castle feel cinematic in a new way. It is rare to walk through spaces you have seen on screen without realizing it. This adds a modern cultural layer to the castle’s historical significance.

Personal Reflections
Visiting Oheka Castle for our eight-year anniversary made the experience even more meaningful. Walking through the castle with Faith, reflecting on our personal histories and the shared memories we had, added a deeply personal dimension to the tour.




Both of us had been to Oheka before but never with the context of its full history. Experiencing it together as adults allowed us to appreciate the layers of design, storytelling, and architecture in a way we never had before.
The castle has a way of drawing you in. There is always one more room to explore, one more story to discover.
Leaving the tour and heading to dinner, we felt the pull to return. Perhaps for an overnight stay, we could fully immerse ourselves in its beauty and history without the constraints of time. The experience reinforced that Oheka Castle is not just a place to visit. It is a place to experience, reflect, and remember.

Conclusion
Oheka Castle is a testament to the vision and ambition of Otto Kahn and to the power of history preserved with care. From its grand halls and secret passageways to the gardens and suites, every detail tells a story. The castle’s restoration has ensured that its beauty and complexity can continue to inspire visitors today.
Whether you are exploring Long Island for the first time or returning to revisit memories, Oheka offers an experience unlike any other. It combines history, architecture, culture, and personal discovery in a way that few places can.
For Faith and me, it became not only a celebration of our anniversary. It was also a reminder of how places can carry layers of meaning and memory through time.
The castle pulls you back, and it will continue to pull back anyone who enters its doors. There is always more to see, more to learn, and more to appreciate. Oheka Castle is not just a visit; it is an experience that stays with you long after you leave.
Hope you enjoyed it, and if you’re ever in New York City, I also recommend checking out the Summit Vanderbilt, especially if you love sightseeing like I do.
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